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Squirting - Mental Blocks to Achieving It

Do not underestimate the power of your mind! Mindset is important in many areas of our lives, whether it be self-improvement or simply our daily attitude to events that come into our lives. If you think to yourself 'this won't work because of x' it's very likely that this will be exactly the experience you will get! What we resist, persists.

It's no different with learning to squirt - which is why we provide a complete history of female ejaculation in our Squirt School lessons. If you don't believe that female ejaculation is true, that IT IS indeed a real phenomenon that has simply been 'untaught' over hundreds of years in western cultures,  then it is very unlikely that you will be able to achieve  a squirting orgasm as your sub-conscious brain will be telling your body 'this can't happen'.

So before anything else, please please take note of your mental attitude towards squirting - are you:

  1. open minded and happy to let what will be, be. Or are you...
  2. going ahead with an attitude that says to yourself 'well I don't believe in this female ejaculation stuff, but I'll give it a go and see what happens'

The first mindset is open and receptive, the second has already made assumptions which are therefore likely to be your 'real' experience - ie you've told you sub-conscious mind that you won't experience a squirting orgasm and so most likely you won't, therefore re-enforcing your 'belief' that it's not real.

Similarly it is very important that if you are going to try and learn to squirt that you are completely relaxed and comfortable - especially if you are intending to try initially with your partner present. Are you TOTALLY relaxed and comfortable with your partner? Are you happy to try something new with them present? Do you trust your partner to help you relax and to not put pressure on you?

There's a lot to be said for learning to squirt on your own first and to then introduce your partner to the fun once you're more confident and have experienced the sensations of squirting. This way there is far less pressure on you to achieve and you can experiment in your own time at your own pace. Practice makes perfect after all!

Similarly if you have had any life experiences which have left you mentally un-confident about your sexuality, and you find it difficult to fully enjoy sex as a result, it's probably worth your while addressing these 'mental blocks' to your emotional experiences first before trying to achieve female ejaculation. Learning to squirt is very much about learning to 'let go' and let the sensations take you where they will - and this is only possible if you are relaxed, not anxious, not scarred or worried about what might happen or what it will feel like.

Instead just 'go with the flow' and let the sensations build in your body, enjoy these feelings and let them flow through you without any resistance. This is the how to quickly achieve powerful and incredibly satisfying squirting orgasms!

In fact you may well have already felt some of these sensations before but just not known what they were, which is not surprising really. If you don't know much about female ejaculation then you won't know that these were positive signs you were approaching a squirting orgasm - instead your mind associated them with meaning other things - so your body will have naturally fought against them. You create what you think about as we've talked about above.

So to understand more about these feelings you may have already experienced read on to the next section - It feels like I need to pee! 

If you want to know more about your mental and emotional response to female ejaculation there is no better information than that in Deborah Sundahl's 'Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot' which we highly recommend you purchase. You can get your copy by visiting our Squirt Shop - Books & DVDs which also includes the very best in written and visual information and instruction on achieving a squirting orgasm. Click here now.

 

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